Rent in Twain

My first baby was hard to push out. After an extended length of pushing he was born and we saw that he’d had his elbow up by his head (try reaching your arm to your opposite ear and you’ll have the right position, except he was so flexible his elbow was in line with his…

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God Comes to Women

I wrote this as an Instagram/Facebook post for Easter and it has gone viral in the past several days. I figured I better put it some place more official so that I can keep track of it and keep credit for it before it gets lost on the internet!  Have you ever noticed how in…

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The First Noelle

  Even though it is almost a week late, I’m pleased to introduce:  Noelle Evalynne Farrell Born on December 19, 2015  at 11:17 AM 7lbs 15 oz and 20 3/4 inches long   About her name:  Noelle for being a Christmas time baby Evalynne for being born on her Grandpa Evan’s birthday and Farrell… because…

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The Dark Days of Faith

In March Iowa was covered in snow and the temperature was still in the single digits. I was despairing that spring would ever come and so, in a burst of optimism, I went to the garden store and filled my cart with seeds, potting soil, and containers. I came home and spent the afternoon  planting…

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Asenath

Detail from “Jacob Blessing the Sons of Joseph” by  Rembrandt Genesis 41:45, 50; 46:20 Her Story: After Joseph, who had been sold into Egypt, successfully interpreted the Pharaoh’s dream Pharaoh rewarded him by making him the ruler over Egypt. Joseph’s name was changed to Zaphnath-paaneah and Pharaoh gave him Asenath, the daughter of Poti-pherah the…

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“Boo”tiful Nauvoo

This weekend we went to Nauvoo, Illinois. Nauvoo was the last settlement the Mormon pioneers had before they were driven out by persecution and migrated to the Salt Lake Valley. It is a really interesting town because many of the original houses and buildings have been restored or rebuilt by the LDS and Community of…

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BABYMOON

  There is nothing better than having a new baby. Something sacred happened in our house when she was born, and it has made time slow down. There doesn’t seem to be anything more important to do than– love– her. She is beginning to grow into her name.  It always feels so strange to give…

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Reaching Out

Have you ever seen the movie “Labyrinth“? It is a very odd Jim Henson movie from the 80’s about a young girl who has to rescue her baby brother from the Goblin King (ie. David Bowie). When we were younger my cousin and I loved it.  I distinctly remember spending a whole summer afternoon making…

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Drusilla

Acts 24: 24 Background:  After returning to Jerusalem after years of missionary travel Paul was persecuted by  Jewish leaders and accused of sedition (Acts 21- 23). He was taken into custody and taken to the Caesarea to be brought before Felix, the Roman Governor. Felix agreed to listen to Paul and listened as he defended…

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Mary Christ Mass

Last year when Christmas fell on Sunday I loved going to church to celebrate the birth of Christ. It just seemed like the right place to be on Christmas. Yet because the LDS church has no paid clergy (all positions are volunteered by members) church services aren’t usually held on Christmas Day, unless it happens to…

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Phebe

“Here Bring your Wounded Hearts” by Elspeth Young  Romans 16:1-2 Background: Even though Paul never personally ministered to the saints in Rome he sent them instruction and encouragement in the form of a letter, which is now the book of Romans in the New Testament. His letter to them was written towards the end of…

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I’ll be Wearing a Skirt on Sunday, but it is Okay with Me if you Wear Pants.

I haven’t been on the Internet much the last few days and so yesterday was the first I heard about the “Wear Pants to Church” event that Mormon feminists are planning as a show of solidarity. I don’t consider myself to be a “Mormon feminist”, as I’ve mentioned before none of the brands of feminism…

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Hagar

“God Liveth and Seeth Me” by Elspeth Young Genesis 16; 21:9-21; 25:12 Galatians 4:22-31 D&C 132: 34, 65 Background: After many years in the wilderness, including a brief sojourn in Egypt (Gen. 12), Abram and Sarai were still childless. In Genesis 15 the Lord came to Abram and told him “Fear not, Abram: I am…

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Speed Dating

Speed dating. That is what I have been up to lately. This week I am participating in the LDS Booksellers Convention in Salt Lake City, promoting our book “The Gift of Giving Life:Rediscovering the Divine Nature of Pregnancy and Birth.” Yesterday they had a “speed dating” event where authors, artists and musicians had three minutes…

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Emma’s Dream

In the final days of Emma’s life her son Alexander recorded that she had a remarkable dream. In Gracia N. Jone’s article, “My Great-Great Grandmother, Emma Hale Smith” she wrote: “A granddaughter, Emma Belle Smith Kennedy, remembers Emma: “Her eyes were brown and sad. She would smile with her lips but to me, as small…

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Coming to Know Emma by Katherine Nelson

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Abigail

The Meeting of David and Abigail, by Jacob Willemsz de Wet the Elder 1 Samuel 25:3- 43; 27:2; 30:5-18 2 Samuel 2:2, 3:3 1 Chronicles 3:1 Background: Right before Abigail’s story David and his men had been pursued all over the desert  by Saul and his army.  At one point David and his men found…

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Dress Dare

A year ago one of my blogging friends  posted that she was doing the “Dress Dare” hosted by the young Catholic women who blog at “Defining Beauty”. Here is the details of their dare. Here we go! The Official Rules are: Wear dresses and skirts throughout the month of May. Exceptions:  Snoozing {zzz} and Exercising.…

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Five Things For Friday, My Favorite Books Edition

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Don’t Wait!

Our book “The Gift of Giving Life: Rediscovering the Divine Nature of Pregnancy and Birth” is coming out in print soon! We initially thought it would come out in November but the layout and editing took longer than expected. Right now it is looking like it will be off the press sometime in March! This…

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Widow of Nain

The Resurrection of the Widow’s Son at Nain, Illustration from ‘The Life of Our Lord Jesus Christ’ by James Jacques Joseph Tissot Luke 7:11-17 Background: Jesus was traveling around Galilee with his disciples teaching and working miracles. He had entered into Capernum where he was sought out by a “certain centurion” whose beloved servant was…

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Egyptus

The Egyptian goddess Hathor greeting Queen Nefatiri (Image Source) Abraham 1: 23-24 There are two women named Egyptus mentioned in the Book of Abraham, the wife of Ham and Ham’s daughter. In order to clarify which woman I talking about I will designate the wife of Ham as Egyptus (W) for “wife of Ham” and…

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All Violence is Violence Against Women

Image Source I have always been really sensitive to violence. When I was young it wasn’t uncommon for me to run to my room sobbing because of things I’d seen in a movie or on TV. Even now when I read or see something violent it stays with me for days, clinging to my mind,…

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Peninnah

Image Source 1 Samuel 1: 2-7 Facts About Her: She was married to Elkanah, the son of Jeroham, the son of Elihu, the son of Tohu, the son of Zuph, an Ephrathite (vs.2); She was a polygamous wife and shared her husband with Hannah (the mother of the prophet Samuel) (vs. 2); She had children,…

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Becoming Equal Partners: Holding a Family Executive Council

In “The Family: A Proclamation to the World” it states, “By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers…

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Getting Adam to Partake

When we were first married my husband and I spent a summer living in Amman, Jordan. I was doing research for school and he got to tag along. I’d always considered myself to be a modest dresser–I don’t wear sleeveless shirts, short shorts, low-cut tops, bikinis or things that reveal my middle– and in the…

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Mary Knew

Maybe it is because I’m pregnant (23 weeks!) and this little baby is starting to kick me pretty ferociously, but this post I wrote back in 2008 has been on mind. I thought I’d share it again since it was one of my first posts. “The Road to Bethlehem” by Joseph Brickley Image Source Our…

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Tabitha/Dorcus

“Discipleship” by Elspeth Young. Image Source Acts 9: 36-42 Background: 1 Century AD Not long after Saul’s (Paul) miraculous conversion to the Christian church, and his acceptance into the fold by the Apostles, the church experienced a period of great growth and prosperity (Acts 9: 1-31). Peter, the prophet of the church, “passed throughout all…

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Due Date

Image Source Last week would have been the due date of the baby I miscarried in December. I’d heard from other women who’d had miscarriages that passing the lost baby’s due date was hard, but I didn’t realize quite how hard. I thought that because I already had a new little life growing, thriving, and…

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Book Release! For real.

I know I’ve been sort of the giveaway queen lately but we are excited to announce that November 1, 2011 is the official release date (baring unseen circumstances) for our book “The Gift of Giving Life: Rediscovering the Divine Nature of Pregnancy and Birth” by Felice Austin, Lani Axman, Heather Farrell and Robyn Allgood.(The real…

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My Testimony for Emma

Today is Emma Hale Smith’s 207th birthday! I really appreciate everyone who has participated in her birthday celebration this week. It has been a really wonderful experience. I mentioned before that I’d like to give Emma a birthday present this year and that as I pondered on what she’d appreciate most I felt like she…

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The Nauvoo Willow Tree

As I was getting ready for Emma Smith’s birthday celebration I stumbled onto the story of Kimberly Jo Smith, a great- great granddaughter of Joseph an Emma Smith, and her conversion to the LDS church. I was so incredibly touched by what she wrote, especially when she wrote of seeing the portraits of Joseph and…

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For Fathers

A few years ago I was transcribing my grandmother’s journal (she passed away when I was 13) and I found this cartoon stuck in it. I’m not a huge Star Wars fan but for some reason I love this cartoon. I think it is because it just seems to sum up my Grandpa so well–…

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Good News Moment

Brought to you by my Rosie We are really excited about this new baby coming! Yet no one is really more excited about this baby than Rose. She and this baby have a special connection. Several months ago, before I even knew I was pregnant, at dinner she got a big smile on her face,…

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Flood Warnings

  We are gearing up for flood season in my neighborhood. Granted we aren’t any where close to the type of flooding they are having in Mississippi… but the rivers around us are already really high and the spring melt off hasn’t even really begun in earnest yet. Sandbags have become the newest lawn decoration…

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This is What Family Home Evening Looks Like at My House

In the LDS church members around the world hold “Family Home Evening” (FHE) every Monday night (usually, unless circumstances dictate otherwise) which is a time dedicated for families to enjoy being together and to learn gospel principles. On the LDS website it says that, In 1915 President Joseph F. Smith and his counselors in the…

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Nephite and Lamanite Women Who Toiled, Spun, and Made All Manner of Cloth

Egyptians harvesting flax from which linen is made (Image Source) Helaman 6:13 Background: Abt 30 BC The prophets Nephi and Lehi left positions in the Nephite government and dedicated themselves to preaching the word of God. They traveled throughout all the lands of the Nephites and they “did teach with great power” (Helaman 5:17). They…

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Celebrating Purim

Purim, a Jewish Holiday celebrating Esther’s liberation of the Jews, was last Saturday and Sunday. I’ve always wanted to celebrate Purim. I mean really, a woman in the scriptures with her very OWN holiday, what isn’t there to celebrate about that! Jews often call Purim the “children’s holiday” because many of the activities revolve around…

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Lydia

“She Worketh Willingly With Her Hands” by Elspeth Young Image Source Acts 16: 14-15, 40 Background: During Paul’s third journey he and Silas are in Troas when Paul has a vision. In his vision Paul sees a man from Macedonia who pleads with Paul, “Come over to Macedonia, and help us.” (vs. 9). Immediately after…

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Women Giving Blessings in the Early Days of the LDS Church

Image source On the first Sunday of the month there is no an assigned lesson topic for Relief Society. Instead it is up to the prayerful discretion of the Relief Society Presidency to choose a message their sisters need to hear. This month it was my turn to teach (I am the first counselor in…

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Quiet Book Swap

So after my post about my Very Simple Quiet Book one of my friends from college, Mommy D, emailed me with the perfect solution to my crafting handicap. She suggested that I host a “Quiet Book Swap”. The idea behind this is to break up the massive work that the average quiet book requires. Instead…

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Bilhah and Zilpah’s Birth Stories: The Old Testament’s Form of Adoption

Bilhah and Zilpah were the handmaidens (servants) of the patriarch Jacob’s wives, Leah and Rachel. Rachel, who was Jacob’s favorite wife, had not been blessed with children. While Leah, Rachel’s older sister, had given birth to four sons. Genesis 30 records that, “…when Rachel saw that she bare Jacob no children, Rachel envied her sister;…

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My Hair Shirt

  I didn’t have a single pimple until I was senior in High School. All those years of Jr. High and High School I counted my lucky stars and inwardly gloated at all the other adolescents whose faces broke out like patches of raspberries. I guess I got punished for my teenage cockiness because I…

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Eating Chickens

This post was originally posted on my personal blog back in January 2010. I thought I would share it on this blog because once again– almost exactly a year later– my husband and I just spent the afternoon butchering chickens. All the same emotions I had the first time we butchered a chicken came flooding…

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Practicing Fatherhood

It has been really sweet that my rough and tumble, cars and trains, mud and dirt little boy has been very interested in baby dolls lately. We’ve spent the last few mornings dressing babies, changing their diapers, being “daddies”, taking them to the park, feeding them, playing “Christmas” and snuggling them. Here he is putting…

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Eunice

Acts 16:1 2 Timothy 1:5 Background: 1 Century AD Paul went to preach the gospel in Lystra after persecution drove him from Iconium(Acts 14:2-7). There he performed many miracles, such as healing a lame man and surviving a stoning (Acts 14:8, 19). It is likely that Lystra was the first time in Paul’s missionary work…

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Learning Our History

Every six months Later-day Saints have a worldwide General Conference in which we get direction and inspiration from our church leaders. This year Julie B. Beck, the president of the Relief Society, gave a talk that made my little blogger heart rejoice. She talked about how her “…presidency has prayed, fasted, pondered, and counseled with…

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The Elect Lady

“Episcopa Theodora“, 9th century mosaic in the St. Zeno Chapel of the Church of St. Praxedis in Rome. Image source 2 John Background: The LDS Bible Dictionary says this about the three epistles of John: ” In none of these three epistles does the writer mention himself by name; but tradition assigns them to John,…

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Esther/Hadassah

Esther 2- 10 Background: 486- 465 BC After King Ahasuerus (also known as Xerxes) the King of Persia, demoted his wife Vashti for disobedience, his servants sought throughout all the providences of his kingdom for “fair young virgins” in order to find a new queen (Esther 2:2-3). The chosen young women were taken to the…

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What Mary Felt

Tonight I am singing a solo at our church Christmas dinner for the adults. I am terrified. I’ve never sung by myself… ever. I think I’d rather speak in front of a million people than sing in front of 50, but I need to sing this song. The woman in charge of the program called…

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Noah’s Wife

Genesis 6: 18 Genesis 7: 7, 13 Genesis 8: 16, 18 Moses 8:12 Background: Only nine generations after Adam’s death the world had become “corrupt before God” and it was filled with violence (Genesis 6:11). It was so wicked that the Lord “repented… that he had made man on the earth” and vowed to “…destroy……

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Eve’s “Curse” ?

Every General Conference I pray that God will answer certain questions of my heart and this conference I was praying that He would teach me something new about women in the scriptures or about God’s relationship with women. I was hoping that someone would give a whole talk based off a woman in the scriptures…

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A Glimpse

Last weekend was General Conference. It was wonderful… as usual… how could it not be considering you get to hear a prophet of God speak? Conference always gives me a spiritual infusion and helps me re-evaluate my life and my relationship with God. I am so grateful for it. I am also grateful that this…

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List of all the Women in the Book of Mormon

One of the biggest complaints I hear is that there very few women mentioned in the Book of Mormon. Some women feel frustrated or offended that in what Joseph Smith called ” the most correct of any book on earth,“ God would have neglected to mention women. It is true that there aren’t very many…

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Deborah

“I Arose a Mother in Israel” By Elspeth Young Judges 4–5 Background: 12 Century BC Because of their wickedness the children of Israel had suffered continuous wars with the peoples that surrounded them and were in bondage in the land of Moab (Judges 3). The Lord sent a man named Ehud, who was left handed…

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Adam’s Rib

I love the story of Adam and Eve because within it there are SO many eternal truths about the role and purpose of women and interactions between the men and women. Yet, it saddens me that this beautiful story has also been the justification for so much of history’s oppression and discrimination against women. One…

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Sapphira

“Death of Sapphira” by Musée du Louvre, 1652 Acts 5:1-11 Background: After the death of Christ the Apostles began to boldly teach the gospel and perform miracles in Jerusalem. The rulers in Jerusalem conspired against them but were unable to stop their work. After the miracle of the Pentecost many were converted and were filled…

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Anna

Luke 2: 36- 38 Background: Forty days after the birth of Jesus, and at the end of her time of purification under the Mosaic law, Mary and Joseph took Jesus to the temple in Jerusalem to present him to the Lord (Luke 2:22-23) and to offer a sacrifice to make her purification complete (Luke 2:24).…

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Athaliah

2 Kings 8:18, 26 2 Kings 11:1-3, 13-16 2 Chronicles 21:6 2 Chronicles 22:2-4, 10-12 2 Chronicles 23:12-15,21 2 Chronicles 24:7 Background: Around 842 – 837 BC Jehosaphat, king of Judah, worked most of his life to make peace between the two kingdoms of Israel and Judah. Athaliah, the daughter of Ahab the king of…

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Rhoda

Acts 12: 13-15Background: Herod had “stretched forth his hands to vex certain of the church” (Acts 12: 1). He killed James the brother of John with the sword (12:2) and put Peter in prison during the passover. He put 16 soldiers to guard him and intended to kill him after Easter. The church prayed “without…

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Vashti

“Vashti Deposed” by Ernest Normand, 1890 Esther 1:9-19 Background: 20 BC King Ahasuerus, the King of Persia held a feast for all the princes and servants of Persia and Media in order to show off his great riches. The feast lasted 180 days. After this feast he held a feast for all the people in…

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Lois

II Timothy 1:5 Background: 1 Century AD Paul went to preach the gospel in Lystra after persecution drove him from Iconium (Acts 14:2-7). There he performed many miracles, such as healing a lame man and surviving a stoning (Acts 14:8, 19). It is likely that Lystra was the first time in Paul’s missionary work that…

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Huldah

II Kings 22:12-20 II Chronicles 34:22-28 Background: 7 Century BC Josiah, the king of Judah, was placed on the throne by the people when he was 8- years-old. When he was16 he began to seek after the God of David and to do what was right. When he was 20 he began to purge Judah…

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